You always watch to answer questions truthfully when you’re filling out a dating profile. However, you also want to be aware that you’re not just sending these things out into a vacuum. They’re going to come back, and they’re going to affect the kinds of women you attract. If you’re looking to form a real connection with a caring, open woman then there are some things that you absolutely must include in your love match profile in order to make the best possible impression.
Your Love for Animals
“Women love men who love animals”
A lot of people believe that whether or not you like animals is a good indication of the kind of person you are in general. That’s right, they think that people who like animals are kinder, more compassionate, and will be a more sensitive lover and more ethical spouse. This is totally unfair, of course. There are plenty of sensitive, compassionate people who just don’t like an animal tracking dirty everywhere and shedding their fur onto the new cream carpet. Still, even if you don’t own a pet yourself and don’t really want to you should still put that you like animals into your profile just so you can appeal to that preconceived notion. Claim allergies, or that your lease won’t let you bring an animal in.
Your Devotion to Family
“Express your love towards your family”
This can be a bit tricky. You definitely don’t want to mention your mother in a dating profile. That’s a red flag that will send most women running to the hills. A lot of women are online looking for the flaw in men, and being a momma’s boy is one of the biggest. You can mention your family if you’re describing your favorite memory, or a question like that. Just mention that your sibling was there when you won the game or something like that and she’ll think that you’re a very good family man.
A Selection of Pictures
You shouldn’t overload your profile with pictures but you should at least include a few. To start with you should always have your first headshot be one of you looking serious and off camera. Women interpret men who look into the camera in their photos as too eager. Looking to the side makes you seem mysterious and interesting on a subconscious level. You should also include a shot of you doing something, be it rock climbing or painting a picture to show that you’re nice. Thirdly you should have a group photograph, like a company picnic or a sports team shot.
Your Ideal Date
In a business sales pitch this would be the “call to action” slot. You just tell people to do something and they become more likely to do it. Here you should describe why they should send you a message by explaining a fun date they could have. “Write me a note if you want to go exploring sushi places this weekend,” is a way better hook then “If you’d like to get to know me, maybe you could send me a message.” Give her a reason to care.