Crafting the Perfect Dating Ad for Kinky Women

“Always keep an open mind while creating a dating ad”

Coming up with the perfect dating ad isn’t always easy, and making a profile can be just as difficult. It can be even more difficult if you’re trying to hook up with any kind of woman, but if you add specifics desires into the mix – a love for bondage or kinky sex, for example – then it can become even more complicated. It doesn’t need to be, though! There are some simple ways to craft the perfect dating profile or ad to attract kink women. Once you learn these tips, you’ll have a much easier time getting the right type of women to message you. If you have a tendency towards the kinky side of things, here’s how you need to write your dating profile or personal ad to attract similarly kinky women:

Making Your Unique Interests Known

First of all, you need to make it clear that you’re looking for something besides vanilla sex. If your profile or dating ad says nothing about what you’re actually looking for, you can pretty much guess what kind of response you’ll get. That’s right – you won’t get much of one, or at least not from the type of women you want to get responses from. Make your unique interests known. Don’t be vulgar or crude, but mention what you’re into and see if any women will be interested in experimenting. You need to make it clear that you’re looking to try something besides vanilla sex, and that’s something that might take a little time to figure out how to say diplomatically. Still, it’s worth that little bit of extra effort because it will help ensure you get the responses you’re looking for.

Setting the Right Tone of “Voice”

"Write what you exactly want"

“Write what you exactly want”


The tone of your personal ad or your dating profile is also important. If you’re into BDSM and you’re either a Dom or a sub, your tone should reflect that so that the kinky women you’re looking for know that you’re the real deal. Coming across as a Dom can be a bit trickier because it’s a fine line to walk between dominant and condescending, so watch your ad carefully. If you’re looking for casual kinky sex, then don’t make a huge deal about it and try to come across as being relaxed about it. It’s subtle, but women pick up on it.

Be Willing to Be Accommodating

If you’re looking for kinky sex, be prepared to get some weird responses from women. Sometimes they might be looking for something you’re not strictly into, but willing to try. If that’s the case, be willing to be accommodating. In addition, if you’re looking to have kinky sex you should have a venue in mind. It can be your apartment or a specific hotel that you’ve visited often, but you need to have somewhere already in mind that will accommodate the kind of experience you’re looking for. Keep things casual, but make sure to be prepared for anything and you’ll likely have tons of amazing kinky sex experiences.

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