Getting A Long Distance Relationship To Work For You

The unfortunate backlash of Internet dating can be finding the most amazing partner in the world. Literally the world, quite possibly on another continent all together. If one or both of you is rich, it might not be such an obstacle but it can be a major concern for most people. Depending on just how much you like this new girl and just how far away she is, you may be willing to try out the dreaded long distance relationship. But be aware that in many ways it will require more trust and communication than a girlfriend who lives with you all the time. Don’t take it lightly and it may work out, but you should seriously consider if you can handle the struggle and commitment of a long distance relationship.

Scheduling Time For Each Other

“Make sure to call each other every day”

The most important part of a long distance relationship is making sure you get some quality time as a couple, even if it’s just talking on the phone or on Skype when you don’t have a chance to be face to face. Be sure to plan time to spend together online or on the phone at night. Have rituals of texting good morning and good night so you’re both aware when the other is available to you. It can help increase the sense of being in each other’s lives even when you are far apart. Discuss when you will get to see each other again in the flesh and always have a new date set and marked on your calendars to look forward to. Nothing is worse than not knowing when you’ll see your beloved again, even if your scheduled time is months from now. Give each other something positive to focus on and be sure to make it to your commitments to each other. You don’t want to yearn to see someone for months and have him or her not show up. Make sure work knows well in advance that you are busy that weekend! Don’t let anything come between you when you have a date set.

The Importance Of Sexting And Skype

“Sexting helps in keeping you closer in long distance relationship”

It can be hard to keep intimacy alive long distance but there are technological tools at your disposal that can help with that quite easily. Don’t be afraid to send a naughty text midday and imagine the blush it will put on your partner’s face. Sexting is great any time of day and easy to keep a banter going even when one of you is quite busy. It can be simple flirty texts to let you know you’re thinking of each other. When you both have time, and you should be sure to set some aside, you can even meet up for more intimate Skype chats. Be sure to have a web cam set up in your bedroom so you can create intimate moments even when you are miles apart. The next time you see each other you should each pick out a sex toy for the other to use during your next intimate call together.

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