How to Tell if She’s Secretly Looking for a Relationship

“Don’t get confused, go through her profile again”

When you’re hitting up personals sites and dating sites, you want to contact the women that are interested in what you’re interested in as well. That means that you don’t want to contact women who are there looking for their future husband, especially if you just want to have a chance to hook up and have some fun. However, it’s not always easy to tell what kind of woman you’re talking to when you just have their profile to go off of. If you’re trying to find the right type of women to talk to, it’s imperative that you be able to figure out what she’s actually looking for. That means you want to know if she’s secretly looking for a long-term relationship even though her profile doesn’t advertise that fact. If you’re interested in learning how to do this, here’s what you need to keep an eye out for:

Her Profile Mentions Her Long-Term Goals

If you notice that her profile mentions her hopes for the future, then that could be a sign that she’s looking for a more serious commitment than a hookup. If she outlines her entire life plan about how she wants to get married and have kids that should be a fairly obvious sign that she’s looking for a relationship rather than a hookup. Use your common sense and see what sort of things she talks about on her profile. If she seems more casual and discusses hobbies and things like that instead, it should follow that she’s mostly interested in hooking up and having fun. Don’t skip her profile – it’s definitely something you should be sure to read thoroughly.

She Makes No Mention of Casual Relationships

“I guess she wants a serious relationship”

If her profile makes no mention that she’s looking for casual relationships, that’s a fairly obvious sign. If she’s looking to hook up, she’ll make that fairly obvious on her profile. If she spends very little time mentioning casual relationships or casual hookups, then chances are she isn’t just looking to hook up. She’s probably more interested in keeping you around for the long term. Make sure to read her profile and see what types of relationship she talks about and what she seems to want. If none of that seems to include casual relationships, you have your answer.

She Doesn’t Want to Meet up Right Away

If a woman just wants to hook up, she’ll be fine with meeting up rather quickly. If she’s looking for a more serious relationship, she’s going to want to spend more time getting to know you before you hook up. Keep an eye on how quickly she seems okay with meeting up. If it’s right away, you’re probably in for a hookup. If she’s hesitant, then chances are she isn’t really that interested in just hooking up. She may not want to say so outright, but that’s the impression you should get from this behavior. Keep that in mind when you’re looking for women to hook up with, because she probably won’t be the right one for you.

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