“Make a new profile and try to describe your best part”
If your results on a matchmaking site aren’t exactly the kinds of women that you’re looking for, it can be frustrating. These are the kinds of women that the site thinks are right for you? Often, getting bad matches on a matching site is the first step towards realizing that you’re not the kind of guy that you thought that you were. Rather than sit around and feel sorry for yourself, here’s what you can do to change the pairings that you’re getting and get a good idea of what you have to work on in yourself in the meantime.
Make Yourself the Best You Can Be
Retake the matching test (or make a new profile if you can’t take the test again. That’s the first step. This time, when you’re describing yourself try to think of the best version of yourself. This doesn’t count so much on questions about your physical appearance. Sure, you’d like to lose 30 pounds but you’re probably not going to be able to before you get set up on your first date. However, if you’d like to be a little less selfish in your daily life than you can put down that you’re “very” generous and then just work on making that true. All it takes is an attitude adjustment and a little conscious effort and you’ll start being the best that you can be very soon.
Change How Much Things Matter to You
In addition to polishing up the areas where you find yourself lacking you can try to make sure that you’re not showing incompatible features to the kinds of women you want to attract. You might think that opposites attract, but the matchmaking software doesn’t. If you want a bubbly, outgoing woman to date then you shouldn’t list yourself as an anti-social introvert who doesn’t like going out much. Give the answers that you’d want your future wife to give and you’ll be paired with the perfect kinds of women for you. All you have to do is be aware that it’s not always that easy to get this right. If there’s a finite number of times you can take the matching quiz then you want to be cautious with this. After all, you can’t answer so differently from yourself that the women you’re paired with won’t be attracted to the real you.
Work to Make This You a Reality
“Time to change yourself a little bit”
The single most important thing that you can do to change your results on the quiz is to change yourself. If you don’t like the kind of women you’re dealing with, take a good look at your life. Identify the areas where you can change for the better and then make those changes. Self-improvement is always going to be hard work, and it’s always going to be painful, but it’s honestly one of the most important things that you can do for yourself and for others. Working to make yourself the perfect husband for the kind of woman you want to marry ensures that you’ll be paired with the woman of your dreams.