“She wants you to stay with her for a longer time”
What’s not to love about no-strings-attached hookups? You’re getting the milk for free, so to speak, which is something that most other guys are going to envy you for. If you’ve been lucky enough to be in this kind of perfect situation, you know there’s really only one thing that can ruin it, and that’s emotions. When she stops looking at you as a great hookup and starts seeing you as a potential romantic partner, your perfect situation is on the way to becoming not so perfect. Before you decide to pull the plug before you get caught up in a relationship that you weren’t looking for, you need to make sure that she’s actually eyeing you up as boyfriend material. If you’re not sure how to tell if that’s what she’s thinking, just read on. We’ve got all the information you need to be able to tell what she’s thinking.
She Wants You to Stay in Touch
When you’re in a sex-only relationship, you’ll really only be contacting each other when you’re feeling horny. That’s the beauty of being hookup partners-you don’t have to deal with each other except when you want to get laid. If you’re fling partner suddenly starts wanting you to stay in frequent contact with her, it’s a sign that something’s changed. She no longer thinks of you as just a sex outlet. She’s now thinking about you as something more, which is bad news for you. If you’re not certain if that’s actually the case, just give it a little time. If she really is digging you as relationship material she’ll probably start asking you to call her more and more often. On top of that, she’ll probably text you and call you way more than she did before.
She Introduces You to Her Social Circle
“Hey friends, meet him!”
If you’re sex buddies, there’s no real need for you to hang out socially because all you’ll be interested in is how you get along between the sheets. This is yet another reason why being in a sex-only relationship is so awesome. If your partner suddenly starts inviting you out to hang with her friends and family, it’s a huge indicator that the way she sees you has changed. You’re no longer just the guy she goes to when she wants to get some steamy action. Instead, you’ve become the guy she’s starting to fall for. So if she keeps bugging you to come and hang out with her social circle, you know that the balance of your sexual arrangement has started to shift in the direction of a relationship. If that’s not what you’re interested in, it might be time to bail.
She Talks Differently
Before, when you were only interested in each other because of how awesome you both were in the sack, you probably talked to each other a certain way. It’s easy to be casual and light hearted because beyond sexual attraction, you don’t feel much in the way of emotions for each other. If she starts wanting to have deep conversations with you and begins sharing how she feels, it’s a sign that she’s looking at you in a very different way.