“Don’t get upset and lose hopes, move forward”
Nothing is more frustrating and upsetting than getting turned down by a woman in a bar or club, but getting ignored when you send a message to her on a dating or matchmaking site can be a close second. If it seems like you spend more time being ignored than talking to women on these types of sites, you’re probably starting to lose hope. You don’t need to, however. There are some ways to tell if a woman is going to be the type that never responds to your messages. Then, you won’t need to waste any time sending messages to women who will just ignore you. If you keep these things in mind, you’ll be able to get the most benefit from matchmaking sites with the least amount of hassle. Here’s what you should be keeping an eye out for:
Her Profile Is Bare Bones
If you find a woman on a dating or matchmaking site that doesn’t seem to have filled out very much of her profile, there’s a decent chance that she signed up for the site and then forgot about it. You don’t want to waste your time sending a message to a woman that doesn’t even use the site anymore, so these types of profiles are usually safe to skip over. Of course, she could just still be working on it, but chances are either that she isn’t using the site or she just isn’t there to date or hook up with anyone. Don’t waste time on these profiles. If she’s actually active, you may wind up getting a message from her instead, but don’t hold your breath or expend much effort.
She Doesn’t Talk about Hooking up or Meeting up at All
“I guess she is not interested in me”
If her profile doesn’t mention hooking up or meeting up with anyone from the site, or that she would be interested in doing so, chances are she isn’t going to respond to your messages. We can barely fathom why these women are even on matchmaking sites, but it’s just the way things are. She might be on the site for a variety of reasons, but none of them really include responding to messages from guys that want to date or hook up with her. Don’t bother messaging these accounts unless you have nothing better to do, because chances are she will just ignore your message.
She Says She’s There for Friends
This is the worst. If she says she’s on a matchmaking site for friends, then she’s probably not going to respond to your messages about wanting to hook up at all. We can’t imagine why anyone would use a matchmaking site for the use of finding friends, but it does happen. If her profile says she’s looking for friends, either she’s lying or she’s telling the truth but she’s probably not going to care too much about responding to your messages. Besides, she’s not going to want to hook up even if she does respond to your messages. Therefore, she’s a waste of your time, at least for what you’re looking for.